"I’ve found that people often realize things about their own lives while telling other people about them. Sometimes, when describing one’s life and then hearing what they think about it, you achieve a different perspective on events that can lend a clarity to your own problems. Sometimes, the other person can’t offer anything helpful about your life. Some things are just too fucked up to be fixed with words.
I’m editing and occasionally I find some little tidbit that seems good. Not sure who put it there, but I’m cutting them out and putting them here.